JohnPaul II Council 1610 at 201 Clark St, Middletown , OH 45044 US - SECRET GUIDE:
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Secret Guide to the Knights of Columbus
(For Wives, Families & Friends of New Knights)
Adapted from the original text by Greg and Sue Taillon, New Hampshire State Council
Husband: Honey, I've been asked to join the Knights of Columbus.
Wife: What are the Knights of
Husband: Well, all I really know is that it’s a men's group that helps the Church & Community, I'll be taking my 1st Degree next Monday.
Wife: What's a First Degree?
Husband: Well, frankly I don't know. But when I find out, I won't be able to say.
Wife: Whoa, you're joining a group of men that supposedly does good things and you can’t tell me anything about it? Well, please don't forget that you have a wife and a family!
Husband: Well, I’m told that it is a FAMILY oriented organization!
Wife: And how does your wife and kids get involved and what kinds of family activities do the Knights put on?
Husband: Well. I'm not sure, but I'll find out.
3 months later.....
Young Child: Mommy, where’s Daddy going again tonight?
Wife: He’s at another Knight’s meeting Sweetie.
Young Child: Mommy, what does he do at Knight's meetings?
Wife: Well, Honey, I’m not really sure. Why don’t you and I ask him tomorrow night!
When your husband, father or maybe your older brother joins the Knights of Columbus, he is joining the largest Catholic, Family, and Service Fraternity in the World. What does all that mean?" Simply put, he's doing a good thing! This organization is Catholic and supports our Church. This group of men believes in the Family, and need their family's involvement and support. The Knights is a Service organization that also supports the community. With these as its high ideals, it is the responsibility of the local council that he will join to run programs and activities that support Church, Community, Family, Youth and the needs of their local Council.
First of all let’s clarify an incorrect belief about the Knights of Columbus. While Knights keep secret their degree ceremonials, it is NOT a Secret Organization! If your Knight isn't sharing with you everything else, then ASK HIM! Make him explain to you and his family about his Knights involvement. What happened at the last business meeting; what activities, events and programs are being planned by the council; how the council is meeting the needs of the pastor and (parish community where you go to church: what family and youth events are coming up and what the officers and directors are responsible for in his council. And for any other question you may have, simply ASK HIM! He should welcome your interest and involvement!
Secondly, it is a FAMILY oriented organization. A Knight's wife and family should always be involved in the programs and activities of his local council. If the local council is not sponsoring enough Family and Youth events/activities, your knight has the right and responsibility to step forward and initiate them. Your involvement is critical to the success of his local council the needs of its Church and Community! Finally, the more his family knows about the Knights, the more likely they will share and support his involvement. So with this in mind, below you will find a number of terms, titles and expressions that will hopefully make it easier for you and your kids to talk about and understand what your new Knight is involved in.
- The Knights are a FAMILY oriented. Catholic, Service fraternity
- Nothing is secret about the Knights, except their degree ceremonials
- A man enters the Knights when he takes his 1st Degree (like a Page of Old). As he learns more about the Knights, he takes his 2nd Degree (like a Squire of Old).
- Finally when his council feels he is ready, he will take his 3rd Degree and become a full Knight (Like a Knight of Old).
- 1st and 2nd Degree Knights can not hold a Council Officer position but can serve as a Council Director or Chairman to a Council Activity.
- A 3rd Degree member can hold a local Council Officer position or a State Officer position and can serve as a District Deputy.
Like many organizations the Knights have a hierarchical structure. The major leadership positions are:
Grand Knight - Head of a local council within a town or parish.
District Deputy - Supports
State Deputy - Head of a State Jurisdiction
Supreme Knight – Head of the entire Worldwide KofC organization.
Supreme Headquarters is located in
Council Officer Positions
Grand Knight Head of a Local Council
Deputy Grand Knight 2nd-in-charge fills in for Grand Knight.
Chancellor Gets members active in council activities.
Recorder Takes minutes at all council meetings
Advocate Legal Advisor to Grand Knight and Council
Financial Secretary Appointed by Supreme and approved by the Grand Knight, collects dues and handles all membership & Council paperwork
Treasurer Responsible for all Council Funds
Warden Responsible for all Council property and for setting up for all Council Meetings
Guards Assist Warden in checking membership cards, sealing the Council chamber
Trustees Audit Council Books on semi-annual basis
Lecturer Provides entertaining/educational talks at meetings.
Council Director Positions
Membership Director Directs all Council membership programming.
Recruitment Director Coordinates council efforts to recruit new members into Council. Answers to the Membership Director.
Retention Director Coordinates council efforts to win back and Reactivate existing inactive members. Answers to the Membership Director.
Other Directors Fund raising committees, Spirituality committee, Investment committee, Nominating committee, Squires counselor, etc.
Degree Teams
One of the primary purposes of the degree ceremonials is to exemplify the principles & lessons of Charity, Unity, and Fraternity. To accomplish this, Degree Teams are formed by the Grand Knight for the 1st Degree; by the District Deputy (4 or 5 councils) for the 2nd Degree, and by the State Ceremonials Director of a State jurisdiction for the 3rd Degree. After completing a degree, your new Knight is eligible to learn one of the parts of that degree and join that degree team. Degree Ceremonials are the only part of our Order that is secret to non-members.
The Colors of the Knights of Columbus Emblem
Red is the Symbol of faith, of belief in Christ, in the Redemption and in the knowledge and love of Jesus Christ. White is the color of the Eucharistic Host, pledge of God's Eucharistic presence among men, of the infinite love God has for each individual. White is then the symbol of Christ-like Charity. Blue is the color of Our Lady's mantle in which she wrapped her beloved Son, through Whom came salvation to a sinful world. Blue is the symbol of Hope.
A Warm Welcome to the Family of the Knights of
Knights Emblem
A quick glance at the emblem indicates a shield mounted upon the Formee Cross. The shield is that associated with a medieval Knight. The Formee Cross is the representation of a traditionally artistic design of the Cross of Christ through which all graces of redemption were procured for mankind. This then represents the Catholic spirit of the Order. Mounted on the shield are three objects: fasces standing vertically and crossed behind it, an anchor and a dagger or short sword. The fasces from Roman days is symbolic of authority which must exist in any tightly-bound organization. The anchor is the mariner's symbol for Columbus, patron of the Order, while the short sword or dagger was the weapon of the Knight when engaged upon an errand of mercy. Thus, the shield expresses Catholic Knighthood in organized merciful action, and with the letters, K. of C it proclaims this specific form of activity.
Want to know more about the Knights? Start by sharing with your new Knight the information contained in this brief guide. Next, ASK HIM questions OFTEN, and get involved with him! And finally, we wish to express to you and your family…
Service Directors Coordinate programs and activities in one of the 5 service areas of our Order (Church, Community, Family, Youth & Council)
But let's get back to the sample dialogue above. It could represent what happens to many new knights and their families. Unfortunately and often unintentionally, many families are kept in the dark about the Knights. Councils are encouraged to provide the ladies and families of new knights with orientation sessions at the time he joins. And thus, the intent of this brief guide is to further help make you more knowledgeable about the organization that he and your family are joining.
